Are we our husbands helpmeet?, or what?

Are we?

As I ponder this question, I wonder who we are....?

I am not a accomplished writer or famous, just a Mother of 6, Grandmother of 10 and married for wayyy too many years to ist....not all joyfully however, That is the point of my blog, to help all of Christian women be more happy being our Husbands Helpmeet.

You ask, how to do it, well, stay with me in these next few months and hopefully, you too, can learn how to be more happy being your husbands "Helpmeet".

God commands us older women to teach the younger women the wonders of wifehood. I can think of no better way to obey this comand than for me to share with you my readers what I have learned and am still learning through Gods School.

Regardlesss, of what you have ben in the past, with instructions from Gods word, you too, can become the heavenly gift to your husband.

Yeah, right, you think and may say outloud, If you will stick with this blog, and take to heart and practice what I outline, you can become that "dream" for your man.

You do have a choice in how your life plays out. Some of you fight against the "pricks" so to speak, and your present situation, making no progress. You are fighting in quicksand, you fight everyone and everything...

It is time to stop fighting and start learning Gods plan for you and your husband and your marriage.

Someone once said, "Anything worth having is worth fighting for"..I believe tha to the uttermost.

My marriage and respect for my husband was non existent, I fought him at every turn, thus, He would just back down and that would frustrate me, because, He was not being the head of the home.

You are embarking on a journey to learn Gods design for women. What He has called us to be as a women and Wife and mother.

Each day and sometimes hour will be desicions you will make one way or the other.

Your man is not perfect, so don't expect him to be, are you?

If you are single, hurt because of a past disaster in marriage, single and never been married, this will also help you to learn to be what God says in His Word.

I already know these things, you say, or think, so, why not learn more? Who can have too much "truth" in this day and age?

Stay with me, and you will learn....

Now, make a list of 10 things you would like to see changed within your marriage or heart..hang on to it, put it in a safe place so you can refer to it in the next few months.

I will post every week on Mondays...

I hope to hear reports in the next few months of how these truths have helped you to become the "Woman God would have you be".

Thanks for reading....

Love To You...

Terri

Choosing our own happiness....

Hello Ladies;

It was 21 degrees this morning,,,,brrrrrr.

So what does your day have instore for you today, the same-o, same-o?

I hope you can turn that "same-o" into a stupendous day....Does it not have to do with our attitude?

Not, our circumstances, for we each choose our own attitudes...

Choose to be happy with whatever state of life you find yourself in, rich, poor...noone has to be grumpy with what one has or has not....

It takes some self control and a little fortitude with our own selves to keep on the right path to contentedness, not what others do "for" us or what they don't, but, what we, each one of us do or don't do ourselves.

Think about it....my mind is mine, no one "makes" me a certain way or not, I choose it....

Choose Contentedness instead of unhappiness, it makes ones own heart a little more contented....
Love to you....Terri